If you struggle with the terrifying reality that everything changes, this conversation is for you.
Bart van Melik is a meditation teacher, psychotherapist, and our Teacher of the Month for January. In this live session recorded on Zoom with subscribers to the 10% with Dan Harris app, Bart and Dan explore one of Bart’s favorite teachings: “Keep calmly knowing change”—four words that supposedly distill all 84,000 of the Buddha’s teachings.
We talk about:
Why attuning to the flow of things brings peace (even though change is terrifying)—and what the Buddha said on his deathbed about impermanence
How to introduce meditation to kids without making it seem difficult or boring
The three dimensions of mindfulness: internal (your own mind), external (noticing other people’s breath on the subway), and relational (the field we’re all co-creating together)
Whether connecting through venting and complaining is harmless or something to examine more closely
“Useless speech” (sampappalāpa)—the Pali term for saying stuff that doesn’t really matter, and why the urge is often just “look at me”
Why Bart is still on this path after all these years: community
Bart closes with a beautiful dedication about coming home to the body and appreciating that we show up in community.
These live sessions happen every week in the app 10% with Dan Harris, where you can meditate with Dan and guest teachers and ask questions in real time. Get the app at danharris.com—there’s a free 14-day trial.
