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How To Get Out Of Your Head: Joseph Goldstein and Sam Harris on Nirvana, Non-Clinging, Non-Duality, and the Best Way to Meditate
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How To Get Out Of Your Head: Joseph Goldstein and Sam Harris on Nirvana, Non-Clinging, Non-Duality, and the Best Way to Meditate

Which is the best path to freedom?

Joseph Goldstein is a cofounder of the Insight Meditation Society and the Barre Center for Buddhist Studies, both in Barre, Massachusetts. He is the author of many books including, most recently, Dreamscapes of the Mind.

Sam Harris is a neuroscientist, author, podcaster and the proprietor of the Waking Up app.

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The big takeaway

Two renowned meditation teachers, Joseph Goldstein and Sam Harris, swap insights and debate the practical benefits of two major meditation traditions: Vipassana and Dzogchen. Host Dan Harris moderates as they explore whether non-dual awareness—seeing no separation between the observer and the observed—is best cultivated gradually or accessed directly, and why it matters for anyone aiming to suffer less and live more freely.

How to get out of your head – mindfulness vs. non-duality: Key takeaways

  • Two paths, one goal: Vipassana (mindfulness) offers a gradual, dualistic path to insight, while Dzogchen aims to point straight to the mind’s open, selfless nature.

  • Why non-duality matters: Realizing that there’s no “I” separate from experience helps dissolve the hold emotions and impulses have over us, making them far less afflictive.

  • Clinging is the real culprit: Both traditions agree the main source of suffering is the habit of clinging—to thoughts, feelings, or a sense of self—and that letting go is the path to freedom.

  • “Passive voice” hack: Adopting a subtle language shift—describing experience in the passive voice (e.g., “sounds being known” instead of “I hear a sound”)—can powerfully reveal non-duality in everyday life.

6 practical tips for applying meditation and non-dual awareness in daily life:

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