Sharon Salzberg is a meditation pioneer, world-renowned teacher, and New York Times bestselling author. She is among the first to bring mindfulness & lovingkindness meditation to mainstream American culture fifty years ago. She has written many books, including her latest, a kids book called Kind Karl.
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The Big Idea
Meditation pioneer Sharon Salzberg shows that loving your enemies isn’t about appeasement or being a pushover—but about finding deep strength, clarity, and freedom in your response to conflict, anger, and fear. By skillfully applying mindfulness and lovingkindness (metta), we’re able to transform our relationship with ourselves and others—even amidst today’s divisive times.
Key takeaways:
Loving your enemies is not submission—it’s about acting with clarity (and sometimes, fierce boundaries) free from corrosive hate.
Fear and anger constrict our minds and options; loving-kindness opens us up to greater wisdom, creativity, and agency.
There are four types of “enemies”: outer, inner, secret, and super-secret—which often have more to do with our internal state than external conflict.
Love, properly understood, is foundationally about connection, not sentimentality—and it can be a radical source of personal strength.
6 practical tips for cultivating real strength and loving compassion:
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